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Update on the rotten parents in my life

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Submitted by 3LittleDragonflies on Sat, 09/07/2013 - 12:01pm

SIL has now failed 3/4 inspections. Found out that the CW may talk tough, but he's only done 2 removals in five years. Oh well, guess I'll just have to love nephew from afar for now and document document document his neglect and call CPS every few months. Should be fun.

BM was apparently mad that DH wanted more 1 on 1 time with SD. "But how is she going to get to know her sisters then?"
UM... she's beating up her one sister and trying to sit on the other. I think we're good on the whole "getting to know" thing.
GBM apparently got mad at us a while back and sent us a letter in the mail. Joys. }:) I look forward to reading it and sharing it with you guys.

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Anon2009's picture

Submitted by Anon2009 on Sat, 09/07/2013 - 12:30pm

I think dh should do a DNA test to see if he's sd bio-dad. Never hurts to know for medical reasons.

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Submitted by 3LittleDragonflies on Sat, 09/07/2013 - 12:48pm

We plan to. Just have to find the spare $200 to do it.

I mostly want it for medical reasons. SD is sick constantly, she has breathing problems, ear problems, digestive problems... I want to be know whether to watch for similar things in my BDs (currently no recurrent health problems)

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Submitted by 3LittleDragonflies on Sat, 09/07/2013 - 6:40pm

Cheapest I've found is the Identigene paternity test at Walmart. It's $129 for the lab fee and $26.88 for the test. Money is too tight right now unless my mother agrees to help out and seeing as she still isn't speaking to me... yeah...

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Submitted by Lalena75 on Sat, 09/07/2013 - 4:36pm

It's about 89.00$ for the home tests. SO has twice now made comments on the parentage of his ds, I just flat out told him, "here's how much it costs if you truly question it you have 3 months before it really won't matter at 7 the courts see you as financially responsible anyway and give ) fucks that BM lied and fooled everyone just like their older sis who's supposedly half black and dad bailed BM doesn't know who her dad is and she's a glowing white, white kid so it's mostly bull. So BM's done it before, I'd hate to grow up and find out I wasn't who I thought I was because someone questioned it and didn't check."