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3LittleDragonflies's picture

BM is pregnant again and cried to GBM until GBM let her move back in with her. She managed to say a multitude of stupid things during Sunday's visit with SD.
- She's getting fixed after this baby because it's her second "oops-a-baby". I was tempted to ask if she was broken or if she knows there are ways to prevent "oops-a-babies" other than only have sex while pregnant. (This baby is from her first "real" relationship since her ex left her while she was in labor with SD. No joke, she was IN LABOR.)
- GBM has to get a bigger house before October so that they can have it ready for the new baby. Yep, she's dumping another kid on her now unemployed mother. Seeing as the baby is apparently due in October that would mean she managed to get pregnant right after signing off her custody of SD and hearing that I'm pregnant with NB. Nice.
- She hopes it's a boy so that she has an excuse to buy him all new stuff since all of SD's stuff is pink. Note: This woman has had a job TWICE in her entire life, both times less than 3 months, so I have no idea how she plans to pay for it. Probably GBM. She also said that since SD was a "summer baby" that she'll have to buy all new clothes for this baby anyway since it'll be a "winter baby".
- Her bf was no where to be seen. He was apparently "setting up his new apartment". I was tempted to ask if there was enough room for BM and their kid, but I know the relationship won't even reach the second trimester. Poor sucker.
- She kept mentioning to SD that she was getting a new sister for her birthday (I'm due the week after) and then another new sibling for Halloween. SD denied that she was getting one for Halloween but was very happy about getting a new sister for her birthday.
- She said that SD wouldn't hug her anymore and hadn't for a few months... Guess who got about 10 hugs and several kisses during the visit? Yup, that would be me. Guess being sane is attractive to SD lol
- She then got pissed when we were leaving at the same time as GBM and her and SD kept running back to our car and trying to get in. Like, visibly fuming.

She also let us see her temper with SD that GBM has been worried about. GBM had to excuse herself twice because she was about ready to kill BM for randomly yelling/ grabbing SD. One time was because SD was throwing her toys in the air and saying "Look Mommy! I make it rain blocks!" She's 2! BM started screaming at her and grabbing her arms until SD ran to GBM. Sad

Next week, we'll be taking SD for a few hours for the first time since we moved back. We're thinking a trip to the indoor play area at the mall or find something similar but not as crowded. Any ideas would be appreciated. We can't bring her back to our house yet because it's not going to be up to code for another month and we want GBM to get to come see it before we do.

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LittlePanda's picture

The indoor play area seems like a good idea. I plan to take my baby there once she is old enough, and, of course, any parks near by.

What do you mean that BM's ex left her while she was in labor with SD? Is that person your husband/boyfriend? Why would someone break up with a woman in labor? Please explain that.

Your BM sounds like our BM. Leaching off of GBM completely. NO job, no plan to get one. Ugh. I bet our BM will be pregnant by the summer time!

3LittleDragonflies's picture

NO! BM left DH for another guy when she was 6 weeks pregnant with SD (we suspect she'd been cheating with him for quite some time). She called DH when she was in labor with SD and asked him to bring her BF to the hospital. When they got there she told DH to leave, he could come back in the morning. An hour later we got a call from her BF saying he'd left her and asking if DH could please come pick him up and give him a lift back to his house.

Guy was a real scumbag but I still find it amusing that he left her WHILE she was in labor with SD while DH had found a sweet kind girl to settle down with Wink