I have been with my husband for 4 years left him we decided to work things out n recently married in June. The relationship between myself n him has never been better the problem is his almost 10 year old daughter. Every night before bed or even after shes in bed comes into our room tears running down her face saying she doesnt want to sleep in her bed. She even asked him to make her a bed in our room. (NOT) ! If I get too close to him or kiss him when they come in after he gets off work she gets mad n pouts! If were all sitting on the couch watching a movie she picked out to watch if he chooses to sit beside me she rolls around on the couch huffing n puffing. She goes thru his phone n reads his messages. She lies to her mom and tells her we lock her out of our bedroom ( we cant do that all the locks in the house except bathroom door is to the outside of the room) she does it to cause conflict. Im not sure how much 1 person is suppose to take . I have 3 grandsons all younger than her n they act better than she does. They all say please thank you yes maam no maam you get the point she has to be told to say it. Dont know what to do?