I could curse about this a lot more than I will, except I'm sure it's not as bad as some of the crap dad's are dealing with today.
We went to pick up SO's kids and BM thankfully let us know minutes before we left they had stayed in her bf's 1 bdr apt that's a 12y/o girl (not SO's) a 7y/o girl and 6y/o boy sleeping on a hide-a-bed. So we go there to get them and his son is bald since BM let her bf take their son to get a hair cut and shaved his head it looks terrible! However this is retribution since his son said BM told bf to do it since I trimmed the ruined crooked ends of SO's dd's hair (lice damage and her mom's attempt to cut it last was 2 inches different from one side to the other) I just made it look even.
Then his ds hands him a paper that says "I love mom, dad and mom's bf" SO about cried I said oh that's nice you added mom's bf, his ds says "yeah mom told me too" my bitch crawled out and said well that sounds like a nice way for mommy to hurt daddy on father's day huh (under my breath to SO not out loud I'm not that awful) SO was hurt and I said "how come mom would do that on him father's day since he's your one and only dad To make him sad?" His ds however said yeah that's what she does (Idk if he understood)
Then his dd comes out mind you she's 7, dressed like a two bit trollop short skirt, dark blue eye shadow and heels that don't fit (wtf BM?!) SO snapped she'd be getting her face cleaned and switch shoes as soon as we got home. (then text BM about it not sure what he said, BM of course just says F' U) I told her it was just she's such a beautiful smart little girl and little girls don't need all of that, but when she's 13 (SO's and my house rules on makeup) we'll get her eyeshadow that is perfect for her and not so clownish. She tells us her sister did it and BM lets her okay but not at our house and if she doesn't like it she should tell her sister and BM so.
So we get home (SO tossed the I love everybody paper out the window) kids get cleaned, dressed appropriately and we made hand print, footprint finger paint pictures (his ds wanted to put love mom and dad and bf and me on it) I explained it was special just for dad since he is their 1 and only dad and it's father's day. They had fun doing it (my dd came over last night to make one for her dad too lol she's 17) and shortly we're off to SO's family cookout. My homework is done, kids look like kids (only one is bald) SO is relaxing and not responding to BM's texts (she needs a hole to fall in) my kids got the things they wanted for their dad (first year they both did so with their own money) and I kindly wished him and my dad and SO all happy father's day and SO got an extra bonus for being such a great guy this morning *wink, wink*