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Submitted by overworkedmom on Fri, 06/14/2013 - 4:44pm

I told dh how I felt about the scrapbook that incubator was making with as for fathers day, filled with pics of when they were a family. I told him that it was really hurtful to me to even allow it in the house and that it was just her way of trying to show that once upon a time they were such a happy little family p :sick:

He blows up at me!!! He called me childish and wants to know why I care what they do. Then I said whatever that can do what the hell they want. Send him over and at least we can have a night together. My asshole husband tells me no, ss can stay home tonight and I don't get to go and do anything.

Hell no! I am going to do something alright. He just might not like the end result!

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Submitted by myspoonistoobig on Fri, 06/14/2013 - 5:04pm

He said you don't get to go and do anything?

When did you become the child in this relationship? :jawdrop:

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Submitted by Anne Boleyn on Fri, 06/14/2013 - 5:05pm

Wow. I would pack up and leave for the weekend. Happy Father's Day, Asshole.

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Submitted by Lalena75 on Fri, 06/14/2013 - 5:12pm

Tell him "your not my real dad" then do whatever you want when the hell did these men/women start thinking they can treat grown ass adults like defiant children.
He was way out of line callyou childish because he's all cool with his ex making him a scrapbook to remind him she came first of course she also likely sucked ass and that's why they aren't a happy littl family anymore. Me I would be giving him a big fat middle finger for fathers day

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Submitted by overworkedmom on Fri, 06/14/2013 - 5:32pm

Oh my god! I cracked up at this! ss loves to tell me that I am not his real mom. That is too funny!

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Submitted by Stepbell on Fri, 06/14/2013 - 5:34pm

And when you say it... Make sure you put 'duck you ' in front if not your real dad... That was too funny!!!

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Submitted by Starla on Fri, 06/14/2013 - 7:31pm

Are you for real cause your DH got some issues going on here. He is dismissing your feelings and if he wants to relive memory lane, then he should have stayed with the BM.

You are not childish but you are mature in that you expressed yourself like a lady! He is being a douche here and that scrapbook can stay at the BM's then. I'm so sorry for you!

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Submitted by Shook on Fri, 06/14/2013 - 8:43pm

Magic Mike. That's my Friday night suggestion, ladies. When our DH's start looking like our skids with that stupid lost annoyed look on their faces after we reach out to them with our troubling concerns---you know the look that says, "What now? What did I do now?" Solution: Magic Mike & wine.

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Submitted by Shook on Fri, 06/14/2013 - 8:52pm

Are you kidding me DtZ??? I would think that would be part of your DVD library. I never really got into the Channing Tatum craze...until I saw him dance. Oh lord hold on to your mankini strings Channing, prepare to be the new Tickle Me Elmo of the decade.

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Submitted by overworkedmom on Fri, 06/14/2013 - 9:14pm

Thanks again ladies! Nice to know that I am not being over sensitive on this one! SS wound up going over to the incubator and H is pretending like he never said a thing. I chilled at home catching up on TV that I never get to watch and never relinquished the remote! We will see what happens tomorrow when SS gets home. I am feeling the need for a bon fire though!

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Submitted by Kendall on Sat, 06/15/2013 - 8:28am

You are not being over sensitive. I am making a keepsake for BS9 months for Father's Day. I used his handprint which will go along with a poem and photo. When I was picking out a photo to use, I picked one of the two of them. I thought about one of the three of us, and then I thought, this is Father's Day not Family Day. This is about their relationship as father and son. BM sounds very desperate for some attention. Not your problem, that thing would disappear as soon as it enters your house. That is your home and that is her way of trying to inflict her presence.