I am in the process of disengaging from BM. I mentioned this to SO and he says he doesnt want any drama. (Understandable). In my previous blog I mentioned that BM was trying to figure out, my assets. Anyways, perhaps I shouldnt do this, but I need monthly confirmations.....
I usually use SO's computer and his work e-mail is up I dont look at it usually, the only thing I look at is primarly to see BM's e-mails....
Every frickin month, when it turns May 1st, April 1st etc doesnt matter. SO gets an e-mail saying "SO please transfer the money" , "Please send me the e-mail with the money". She will call if she doesnt get a response, ie her moneys not there. A lot of people on ST have it way worse, I get it. It just annoys the fuck out of me...Especially since before we were dating(me and SO were friends for years and dated other people in between, she never did this). We start dating last year, she's all up in his grill lol, so to speak.
If i did that to my ex about CS, he'd tell me to go F Myself(never hassled him for money either, in fact he owes me more, but its not worth fighting with stupid)....Every month it bothers me, its like getting your period, you know every month that B is going to show up, some how...LOL./

Funny thing is...she fails to mention that their son failed grade 7, but here in ontario, they are no longer able to fail students but instead transfer them to the next grade(however it will remain on their transcript). You would think thats more important than money...but nope. Not with this type of human.
SO doesn't see it, he knows she's a B. But doesn't realize the premonitions I get about her....oh well, begining not to care as much! Only thing that calms my stress! Just needed to get it out!