Well, SS left another load in the drier...after being told he may not do his laundry again and knowing what would happen to it if he did.
He came storming into my office area and DEMANDED his clothes?! I think not kiddo, with no respect whatsoever for his dad he went upstairs and woke him and made loud demands to DH too?! DH got out of bed and ripped him a new ass, told him he was out of order and he most certainly cannot use the machines again. DH also reminded him that he's laying on us, does not contribute in any way shape or form to the household and still makes demands. It cannot happen that way, it is unsustainable for both DH and I, especially when he's doing chemo...which is almost finished and successful. It's still a long road, re gaining weight and stamina will take time for DH and if SS is not going to help us then he really should not hinder us. I can live with SS not helping around the house, I can live with him not paying us rent money but I cannot believe that he tried to bully me this morning? Like a broken record it was 'where are my clothes...where are my clothes' and getting louder each time. I was not intimidated by him though, I did not lose my cool iether. I told him that I am sorry he chose to be so disrespectful. DH did not move until SS demanded that he did, DH knew I had this one. Once DH was pulled into it he really got on SS's case.