I cannot believe what has happened. Sorry I feel like a blog hog lately but the amount of drama these skids are doing is crazy. 

Dh told me yesterday when he got home from the shop that he received another text from SD. He just gave me his phone and sighed. 

She asked if she could go to this party and sent him an image of a screen shot between her and random girl we haven't heard of on her Snapchat. So basically this girl greeted SD on the Snapchat chat and explained she is having a skating party and because SD mentioned to her she loves skating, she would really love SD to attend. She gave SD the date. 
 

SD replied with 'Is it a sleepover????' And it read she deleted a chat and after said 'I'll ask my dad hopefully I can come' with caps and all sorts of emojis and then the girl said 'well I don't know but I can ask my dad if it can be a sleepover too'.  
 

DH was glaring at me about it and I asked what his thoughts are and he said he's pissed off. He said this is not an invitation to a party that he approves off. Shes 10 years old on Snapchat (which disappears!) bargaining about a sleepover for a girl she obviously talked to at the sleepover she wasn't allowed to go to the week before. 

I agreed and said the fact we have never heard SD speak of this girls name before gives me the impression it's another year 6 girl (SD is year 5). Plus where is her formal invite? This girls parents would have sent information regarding times, location, phone number of parent organising, there's none of that!! 
 

It almost sounds like this girl already has formally invited her friends (it's at a skating rink) and knowing SD, she manipulated this girl to invite her as the girl said 'you told me you love skating so I want you to come' so she mentioned to her she LOVES skating to score an invite and it must have worked. WTF SD she has never once begged us to take her skating or showed interest to have a pair of skates here. DH didn't even know that was a hobby of hers. I said she's lying, all she wants is to go to this party and it's our weekend, she's rudely asked this girl is it a sleepover. 
 

DH is angry that again, SD is trying to organise an event with no parent communication what so ever. When SS is invited to birthday stuff he gives us the invite or his friends parents contact DH number directly as he knows it will be at our place and DH let's him go as he's speaking directly to the parent and we know SS friends as he talks about them non stop. Plus they are all his age!! 
 

I said well she shouldn't be rewarded to go to this random party anyway after the stunt she pulled last week! The nerve to ask DH again has really shook him up. He hasn't responded yet. I told him don't reply yet.. until we figure out how to tackle it. 

Edit: ALSO DH received 2 messages from the school yesterday. One from SD teacher and one from SS teacher saying the exact same thing. Both stated that there is a group of yr 5/6 students misbehaving and had a chat with the principal in the office today and can he please chat to his children at home too about doing the right thing. So, red flags are flying everywhere for us.