So we all have different levels of difficulty but there's always something going on.

YSDalmost18 is with us for a week. A long week. Fine. 

But DH cancelled a holiday afternoon for the two of us I had planned the other weekend (when she was also here) and now looks like he's going to cancel something this evening, another fun holiday adult thing. FFS. He's the one complaining that "he's done with Christmas" but he's done nothing. AS I EXPECTED. I've done fun stuff myself, baking, giving away baking, doing things with friends and co-workers, but nothing with DH. He also wants to do Christmas dinner on another night, which we don't normally do. Fine, but I do NOTHING the other night because it's my vacation time too. Yes, he will help me with the dinner activities at least.

Of course every evening is now focused on YSD. Fine. I'll go read my book or watch something in the other room. I really don't want to play a board game after working all day (oh, yeah, he's not working while she's here either). Or he'll get irritated with something I'm doing because it's distracting him while he's trying to do something with YSD, oh, sorry, just cleaning up my stuff here and getting ready for work tomorrow morning.

You go have fun, I'll just be here doing my things alone. Then he'll wonder why I just don't want to be involved. Because I'm not actively included and AGAIN my suggestions/planning is all for sh*t. 

Yeah, great, lots of fun. 

My neighbors, who I used to go to for a break spontaneously, adopted a large, aggressive dog and so I cannot go over there right now.