OSD managed to rope YSD and BM into the drama surrounding our refusal to co-sign for an apartment. This included both of them calling and texting XH nonstop, bringing up every perceived injustice they've experienced over the last 15 years.

The vast, vast majority of it related to DD and how it's "unfair" that she has it sooooo much better than they ever did. At one point, XH pointed out that DD's mother (me!) makes her own money and it's not DD's fault that their mom hasn't been as successful. Of course their comeback to that was that I DON'T actually work to earn my living, it's just "bribe money" that XH evidently pays me so that I won't keep DD from him. Honestly that made me more angry than anything else they said, because only someone vile enough to withhold her children from their father in an attempt to extort more money would think to accuse another person of doing that. I desperately wanted to say that to them, but I know there is no point in engaging. 

Ultimately, all this drama led to XH selling the tickets he'd purchased to take them to see Taylor Swift. The tickets cost thousands and he just wasn't interested in being that generous to them at this time, given how ungrateful they are for everything else we've done. But I guess denying the Taylor Swift was a bridge too far, because OSD unfriended me on Facebook and deleted the posts and pics she'd shared of our NYC trip last summer. And now neither of them are speaking to XH or me. They're supposed to come to my house for our big Easter celebration, for which I've already bought gifts for them, which has been a tradition for the last 12 years or so. It'll be interesting to see if they show up or not.