I hadn't seen her in 2 years but caught a glimpse when we dropped SD off Saturday, unfortunately. For reference, SD14 wanted a pixie cut 2 years ago but BM and SF told her it would make her look like a boy and she'd never get a job. I finally took her to cut her hair because it's hair and SD refused to take care of it and BM never helped her style it or take care of it. BM has always had long hair the last 10 years I've known her.

That bitch had a soccer mom grown out pixie, I wouldn't have recognized her if SD wasn't standing next to her. After sabotaging SD's confidence, she gets the exact same haircut she told SD would make her look like a boy and she could never be successful with!

BM also called SD a psycho last year when SD had a mental breakdown and was trying to get CPS called on BM and SF. BM begged DH to take SD because she couldn't handle her and SD has now moved 600 miles away TWICE in 6 months and will be going to 3 schools this year. They are seriously enmeshed so obviously SD will never cut BM off but it makes me so mad the shit SD will have to put up with the rest of life with her evil mother and she'll always accept it.