BM is a level 10+ Helicopter parent who fully Devotes her life to SS13. She even said in court she but her life "on hold"(no dating) to raise SS. She is HIGHLY Engaged in SS's school and knows the homework Assignments better than the teachers. BM is VERY Concerned about SS's Social life or lack of. At EVERY Psychologist appointment for SS BM complains how he does not have friends, does not like to go out seems Depressed etc. The therapist will then give BM and DH Suggestions on how to help SS.
 

Here is the kicker. After all that complaining BM almost never follows Through or teach him certain things. BM got SS a fancy new bike a few years ago BUT SS still does not know how to ride without training wheels. The therapist for YRS said Soccer would be great to get SS into which BM loved. BM even said to SS's doctor she did NOT want to give SS weekend breaks from his ADHD meds as he needs to stay Focused when he's in a Soccer team. This was four years ago and SS still is NOT in a Soccer team. BM never even takes him out to kicks the ball. 
 

I know BM is not just complaining for "show". BM will will buy things(fancy bike, Soccer net) to try and get SS to do things but she never Participates or follow through. I don't know if BM does all this complaining to the therapist partly because DH is there too and she's wanting DH to step up and handle these issues with SS??? Thoughts???