Sorry to blog hog but I'm having a very weird week and BM keeps calling DH and I'm frustrated.

So last week BM takes the kids to the dentist ( DH got them dental a few months ago) both have extreme cavities. Want to guess why? Both were using bottles until 5 or 3 respectively. So anyone with a dumb spouse allowing that- make it stop at your home.

I digress. SD7 literally is missing at least a day of school a week due to feeling sick. I understand with all that's going on this sounds presumptuous but the kid missed over 50 days of school last year. She's not ill and plays BM like a god damn fiddle. So when BM pulls SD7 out of school yet again for 2 more days to recover from the dentist.. ok I'm mad. DH is mad. When she comes over I flat out tell the kid to study up so she isn't the oldest first grader. 

BM also enjoys not co-parenting in any way shape or form. Because the kids " already have a support system". Unless they actually need something then suddenly ... Where did that support system go?

So BM has called 3 times already this weekend as SD7 has a molar coming in and it's painful... Ok? Why are you calling. There's literally no point. When the kids have a headache here we give them meds and they lay down. We don't call BM to tell her. If things are absolutely bad DH texts it so BM knows before drop off. 

I honestly think SD pressures BM to call my husband. Either that or she just wants to call? Disengagement is calling to me like a siren song. I don't want to care about these kids as much as I do.

I told DH no kids this weekend. This isn't our weekend and I don't think a seven year old gets to decide at random where to be. Also if she is in pain she needs to rest and stay at BMs

Let's see how that plays out. I've never actually hated someone I've known personally but BM is getting up there.

Sorry for the vent   I needed to put it somewhere