So I have posted in a previous blog about how I am done enforcing ANYTHING to my stepkids because they like to paint me as this evil person. The outcome would be that my Husband would start saying his kids didnt want to come home in his time anymore and make it seem because I was the one not treating them well. ALL because I would try to enforce rules and decipline, morals and values. I enforce all this with my own children. I also have posted how his little 7 yr old brat of a daughter always tries to get her way,has lied on me a few times and so on. 

Well last night before bed time he tells them they had to clean their room today and study. Im a stay at home so they stay at home with me during summer time on his time while he works. He comes out of work at 3 so at 2 he texts me asking me if the kids had cleaned up and study. By 2 he expected them to be done but of couuurseee, me being nice (even though the bumerang comes back and hits me right in the face as always) had told them that as long as they got their things done before dad gets home they could play all they want. When it was cleaning time I hear my step daughter crying. (If this little brat can cry her way out of everything, she would) I heard her crying for a while until I approach her and her brotherand ask why was she crying. Brother tells me she is crying because she didnt want to clean up (as always). I told her "didnt your dad just scowled at you yesterday for crying for no reason? no one is yelling at you or being mean to you. all you have to do is clean your room and study, other wise im going to have to call your dad and let him know.". She goes on crying for TEEEENNNNN MINUTES! I text my husband and let him know whats going on, expecting he would not give in on her crying and what does he do....baby talk to her"Oh whats wrong my baby? why are you crying? its ok, you dont need to cry. You just have to help me out a little".And she goes and and says "its because she made me cry. she said she was going to tell you and that you where going to be real mad at me". I cant! I became so angry and frustrated because i cant tell them anything cuz im the bad guy, and i cant tell dad whats going on so he can enforce shit cuz im still the bad guy. i immediatly jumpned in the call and told her " thats not true, you where already crying and what i said was i was going to tell your dad but never said he was going to be real mad at you." will dad be upset i made that move? yeap! was i wrong for reacting that way? i really dont care anymore but i just cannot with her. And than he wonders why i havent tried building a relationship with her anymore.  Because i try and i just cant anymore with this type of behaviour from her and he doesnt seem to do much about it.