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Well, SD18 got arrested

Fade to black's picture

Submitted by Fade to black on Tue, 04/30/2019 - 5:02pm

Dh got the call from BM yesterday.  Evidently Sd was driving somewhere far away with friends,  was speeding and got pulled over and was charged with possession of marijuana, possession of controlled substance penalty group 2, and drug paraphernalia.  

She was booked, took a mugshot,  and spent the night in jail until BM found someone to pay the percentage of the bond. 

BM  told dh that sd has been blowing off her college courses, and whenever bm asks about her grades she is told "its none of your business ". Sd is on financial aid, and we arent sure how this arrest/future court ruling will impact that, or her getting into her chosen field in the healthcare profession.  

Sd moved away from us to live with BM almost 2 years ago, because BM always was the friend parent and let sd run all over. Now here we are.

I am staying out of it. Disengagement continueth!

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Submitted by CLove on Tue, 04/30/2019 - 5:09pm

That sux. When Toxic Feral was 17 plus, she was caught stealing from JC Pennys. Her second time. They didnt press charges because she had money in her wallet. But she did get fined $250, which DH paid. So that she would watch his elder mother during his "turn".

I called her winona for a while.

I hate that these crappy SD's with loads of entitlement (you owe me!!! I am your CHILD!!!!) can get away with all this and more.

Yup. Disengagment is not just for dinner anymore.

Of course, they never leave after 18. They just get into bigger and more expensive trouble.

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Submitted by tog redux on Wed, 05/01/2019 - 7:08am

For an 18 year old girl, they will probably drop that to a youthful offender charge or a misdemeanor.  Still stupid, though.

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Submitted by STaround on Wed, 05/01/2019 - 7:34am

She will get it dismissed if no more problems in 6 months.  everyone in car will claim drugs not theirs. 

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Submitted by beebeel on Wed, 05/01/2019 - 8:11am

OP is in Texas, so that's unlikely. She will lose all of her financial aid even if the charges are reduced. ANY drug related offenses make one ineligible.