Summer of H*ll
Summer hasn't even started yet and I am dreading it. There is not a clear order in the custody agreement about summer. Just says we are supposed to have her 40%. She takes gymnastics lessons at her mom's about a hour away from us. DH doesn't want to get her during the week and have to take her to her lessons 4 days a week.
Last night he asked me.. What do you think about getting SD every Friday through Tuesday? I couldn't even answer him because it sounds God awful to me. DH works swing shift and is on a different shift every week. So it would be me taking care of her most of the time.
She is so needy. She wants constant attention. She wants to be around you 24/7. She is also annoying and shi* and can not be trusted. Both parents agreed that she needed therapy but of course neither is doing anything about it.
I am already ready for summer to be over.
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Think it bad idear
Child comes to see your Husband. Not you. If he not home she should not be there. If there two hours of driving then he should do it and pay for the cost of the gas
Put her to work when you have
Put her to work when you have her doing hard stuff. I guarantee you SD will beg to call of this visitation pattern. At 13 she should be given chores to make her feel part of the family. If she doesn't like it she can just backflip back to BM's.
I would tell bm....forget about summer. Cant afford cs AND camp. If you want our daughter to see her dad I will take her eow. That is the best I can do under the current situation. IF not, ok.
DH works swing shift and is
DH works swing shift and is on a different shift every week. So it would be me taking care of her most of the time.
Then he has no business getting her Fri-Tue.