If you remember from my previous post SD refused to admit that she started her period even though her mom had found evidence multiple times that she was stuffing her underwear with toilet paper. Just flat out lied about it and said it was 2 different friends that had been over. This past week I found bloody underwear hidden in her drawer. She couldn't lie and say it was a friend at our house. 

She came over on Friday. Her dad Sat her down and said I am giving you The opportunity now to come clean and tell the truth. He asked her have you started your period she looked at us both right in the eyes and said no. He asked her again she said no I pulled out the bloody crusty underwear that I had found in her top drawer and she said ewwww whose are those?! 

SD lies about everything. It doesn't even bother her that she lies or even when she is caught lying. 

We sent her to her room while we talked and tried to figure out what to do with her. I went in her room and said she was not going to her grandparents house the next day or anywhere until she started telling the truth. She finally admitted that she had started. 

DH called her back in the Living room and asked her why she had lied for almost a year about starting your period when it was nothing to be ashamed about she couldn’t give an explanation he told her he was really disappointed in how much she lies about everything and doesn’t seem to have a conscious about it any of it and she just kept laughing and having a smart A** attitude about it. 

She has been grounded for over a month at her moms house because she’s failing English and because of all the lies she has been called in recently. We have disconnected her cell and she’s not supposed to be on the Internet or watch TV at her moms house. She was caught last week sneaking in her mom’s tablet into her bedroom and face timing with her boyfriend.

Yesterday she went over to the grandparents house and this morning we get a call from the grandmother saying that they caught her at 3 AM face timing the boyfriend on their tablet what she had snuck in the middle the night. The boyfriend’s mom somehow found out and went through his tablet and found inappropriate photos of her. The grandmother talk to the boyfriend’s mom and the boyfriend’s mom said that they were not naked pictures but they were pictures that step daughter would not want getting out.

if it had been my child I would have been down at the grandparents house in a heart beat getting SD back. But DH did nothing!! They were getting ready for church and he wanted her to be able to go to church. I couldn't believe it. He never talked to SD today. 

SD aunt who was at the grandparents house today that went to college for counseling was supposed to talk to SD today..I text her a bit ago to see how the talk went and she "didn't have time today" 

The bf mom wanted BM number so she could talk to her and send her the pictures. BM said to DH why can't you handle it? I don't want to talk to her! 

SD just came in the house to pick up her stuff so she can go home after church...she acts like nothing is wrong or going  on.meanwhile there is so much stress going  on in our house because of her!