1 year after I was married we suddenly had 2 more kids full time. BM didn't want them anymore. And it has been a nightmare up until 2 weeks ago.
My SD was 7 and SS was 5 this was 19 years ago. They have not seen or heard from their BM in 13 years. SS fit right in, got along with my 3 kids and he calls me Mom. SD on the other hand has been a holy terror from the get-go. She did everything in her power to cause me and DH to fight. I over looked this till she was about 15, she wet the bed every night till she moved out.(I took her to countless doctors no reason could be found)She must have had a "Pee Fairy God Mother" because when she spent the night with friends or friends spent the night here she didn't pee the bed. She also would not were a pad when she was on her period, I would find bloody underwear hid in the bathroom and in her drawers. She would lie to her friends about how mean I was for attention. Long story short........I am now being an evil Step-grandmother because I stay away from her as much as possible to avoid the drama. I was cussed out because I don't have anything to do with her kid. MY QUESTION IS.......WHY WOULD YOU WANT SUCH AN EVIL PERSON AROUND YOUR KID ANYWAY? I told my husband she is not allowed at my house until I get a full apology and she is back on her meds. He didn't argue the point or anything, I guess he knows I have truly tried.