That is the message he just sent me. He called BM and told her that it's bullsh!t that she is telling SD things behind his back and allowing her to be a two timing little snot. He even asked me if I wanted to go! Um, HELL NO, but thanks for the offer- NOT! I did ask that he does say the following on my behalf, however:

1) I am not an evil SM and do care for SD but her game playing and tattling must stop for not being entertained 24/7 and

2) If BM thinks it's so wrong that SD is left alone for THIRTY MINUTES that she please tell DH it's an issue instead of going behind his back and telling SD it's wrong and

3) If SD wants someone to do something nice for her, she ought to return the kindness instead of just taking all the time.

DH says he's "pissed" so I'm secretly hoping that SD doesn't even want to come home with him and we can enjoy our evening and homemade meatballs alone but if she does come home with him, she is to find her own entertainment and not whine about being SO BORED at dad's because she can't Skype on my laptop all day. She was given a perfectly fine tablet and mini laptop from us that she is allowed to use here.

ETA- DH said he told BM that SD's attitude will stop now because he is sick of it. Also that she is NOT to say one thing to one person then something completely different to another just to get her way, and if SD can't stay 30 minutes alone while I walk the dogs, she can get off her ass and go with me. I asked DH if BM agreed to this because she is the one who was freaking out about a 12 year old being alone for less than a half hour. SD is bad but BM is worse. BM is the reason SD is the way she is, after all.