Venting
Im not sure why dh wants to tell me some stories, especially when it deals with ss14, he knows how i feel.
Dh went to get his haircut on friday, by his half sister.
She is ok- weird and sometimes i feel makes a mountain out of mole hill, but ehh.
He decides to tell her about ss14 being late this morning, and i had to drive him to school.
She asks about why im not up, (like why was i not up at 630-7am to get him out the door with an awesome breakfast and my love)
Dh laughs- and its just so hilarious (me up? Im to lazy to get up)
I do not saying a word- we were going into a store- so he drops this story on me then its cutoff as we go in store with bs9, and bd3.
But im irritated by the fact he wants to laugh about it. Or tell me this story like see she gets up and makes breakfast for her kids- sooo... (yeah and her 19 year old lives at home and acts like a bully to his sister that is in 6th grade, he is very immature, and her daughter everytime im around her she is always talking about kids she HATES at school, so yeah totally going to follow her lead)
** he didnt tell her that he was drinking, baby girl would not go to sleep, so he takes her downstairs on the couch- then he passes out- and 1130pm i have a 3 year old screaming daddy wakeup- i dont like this show- wake up change channel- daddddyyyy- so i go down grab her put her in the dark room give her the serious mom tone bam asleep, i lay down like 1230am. But yes i should be up at 630am too, with a giant smile and breakfast!! Eff you.
(This is not everynight, but god she is a bedtime fighter!! And sometimes he makes it worse thinking he is helping)
DH goes in there before he leaves for work, nicely nudges his presious baby14 yearold, that immediatly falls back asleep, then i hear alarm about 720am- and ss stumble-stomp-fall- out the front door.
Why is dh leaving, without ss being awake??
I was already apart of wakeup time when he was younger and low and behold ss still talks about it like i was sooo mean... and i guess dh forgets the fights we had about him NOT EATING!!!
Like im out- he will be in high school- then real world im not waking him up for work, or college(if he goes)....nope nope nope...
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This morning- it was on friday...
My mom
I know all families are different- my mom worked so i had her till 6th grade, then since my sisters and i were close in age, when i was in 7th other sis was in 6th, we got up on our own and helped lil sis. Dad was there but he did not help much, my mom kind of did everything, but once she started working again, we did it by ourselves.
Im sure my mom and dad had a few fights about it we know nothing about, but my dad took a backseat cause we were ok.
Every fam is different. But step fam, its just better to stay out helping is NOT helping.
Umm no
" Honey! I know! Hilarious! You did tell her I take care of the little ones at night and you get your teen out of bed in the morning and ready for school? You forgot? Oh well. I guess Mr14 is going to keep being late for school then.... No, it is not my job to get a teen boy out of bed in the morning."
If someone gets at you, consider the source. His half sister is a fine one to talk and who really cares what she thinks.
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It just bothered me a bit, like do you have arguing amnesia?? I helped out through elementary school and we would get in arguements about how i woke him, what and if he ate, or about how id have to time check him as he hid out in the bathroom, then id have to yell at him!
No no im never getting him up again! Just irritates me that he does not want to remember or tell her WHY im not helping out. Then he looks bad.
I try not to care what people think but man its hard to shrug it off sometimes!