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Submitted by sc12 on Mon, 08/13/2012 - 4:06pm

So my mil is getting married. We like the guy a lot. However not so much her wedding party order. Mil maid of honor her sister best man fiances best friend. Bride maid bm. Groomsman dh. My mil keep saying she hates bm boyfriend. To me this is trying to get bm and dh back together. While I sit on the side lines. Dh said he wasn't going to do it cause it was wrong and makes me comfortable. (bm lives with mil) so Idk. I'm hopeing the fight me and bm got into, over me asking for pictures of pre k graduation for dh cause he was working, will help this not happen. And also the fight me and mil got into cause we didn't call, when ss had to have 3 root canals 1 tooth pulled, ans caps put on in one sitting. He's 4. I was at school and dh was at work by the time we could it was late and he needed his rest.

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Submitted by Hanny on Mon, 08/13/2012 - 4:12pm

I'm sorry...but mil must be how old? She's at least in her 50's, right? I just never understood the 2nd or 3rd marriage thing. Having a maid of honor and a bridesmaid, seriously? DH should just tell his mother 'no way'...find another Groosman. He'll attend, but he thinks this is improper.

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Submitted by dontcallmestepmom on Mon, 08/13/2012 - 5:14pm

Wow, this is a bad situation, like a bad reality show. I feel for you. Your DH should not be in the wedding party.

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Submitted by Great Mom but h... on Mon, 08/13/2012 - 8:27pm

I'm sorry but your MIL sounds like an inconsiderate and mean-spirited beotch! THE BEST ADVICE is from RisingAboveIt. Perfect and I hope your husband says it.

Wow, I can't even imagine going to the wedding. What a mindf*ck of a mil you have.