My DH is a b*tch, an ahole, and a coward. He obviously has no loyalty, and he's a liar. That's why his son doesn't have his last name, BM has threatened and pushed him around for the last 5 years, and he couldn't even see his kid before w/o giving up his weeks pay check. WHATEVER...not my problem anymore.

He is now going to contend with me. If he thinks her nagging, b*tching, threatening and complaining are bad, he will be in shock at my quiet, tactful ways of dealing with all this. When I leave, it will be prepared.

I won't be threatening him for money, nor begging for his attention. I don't need either.

I put my hand out for the phone. I'm actually glad I didn't get it, because it was in the moment, and surely, I would have been sitting here regretting I didn't say more, or that I said things that made me look like an angry, jealous ahole.

He should have just said no, but God forbid he anger the beast eh?

It will be so funny to see how their lives turn out in the end without me here to help him "figure it all out". I've been figuring shit out since I was 17 ALL ALONE. No help from ANYONE-until now, STALKERS!!!

This seriously just isn't my problem. I have been letting it be, and the result is me being upset time and time again for NOTHING!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! I like my happy life, and there's NO REASON I shouldn't be enjoying it-except DH and BM. NO OTHER REASONS (well of course I'd like more money, but have what I need and lots of what I want)

Oh, he went down a whole list of her family and friends and they are all working=on a SATURDAY, at 6:00 am!

I highly doubt she has a job. She is on welfare. For three years, she has collected CASH from my husband. I finally got my MIL to convince him she's on welfare and he's going to go to jail if he didn't start giving her checks. He tried before BUT THE BEAST SAID NO WAY!!!! She didn't have an account. B*tch boy cowed and said, oh ok.

She is probably going to meet up with some other moron this weekend, and get knocked up again "accidentally" because the pills "just stopped working". She needs more child support. Since my husband started making her take checks, she admitted that she was on welfare and told him to just give her $50 a week (big drop from the $300), because welfare would take the rest.

Yeah, so I don't believe the cow is working either. It's our weekend that DH doesn't have SS. I'm sure it took her until 9:00 to think this BS up. She's a moron, takes time to think this chit up with her hood rat, drunken flea brain (and infested) friends ya know???

That's crazy sueu2. I typed you about a 3 page PM and deleted it because really, what's there to say except that I need to get the f*ck outta this!!!!

LMFAO. How about a set of nuts?

He answered the phone because he assumed that at 9:00 pm something must be wrong with his son.

I agree about him offering his mom being offensive, but hey, maybe that's where he learned to treat women the way he does.

Tonight, he's done it one too many times. My face is seriously beet red, and my head pounding, and I seriously feel like running the BM down and seeing her face print in my windshield, so I know this is beyond repair, understanding, love blah blah whatever. Just done ya know.

Nah, his are there...hers are just bigger. I know this because I can see them through her pants...I could be wrong...it might just be the two fat rolls separated at her belly button and hanging between her legs, but what do I know?

This is good advice and letting it go to voice mail, AND discussing it first could actually be a very positive way to prepare him, feel respected, and for us to be a team, rather than being the ones upset and aggravated by her.

She throws a FIT when he doesn't answer, but hey, we can save all of her psychotic voice mails as an added bonus~then, we can play them back later and laugh at her.

He knows anything BM says pisses me off...she could say "hey, it's raining", and I'd say, "Does she think we're f'ing idiots. Does she think she's some cuty patooty weather girl with a degree in f'ing meteorology?." Yep, a little cuckoo, but she always has an add on to justify my crazy thoughts...like, "I'm telling you it's raining because I want to make sure you know to put SS's hood on" LOLOL She's such a stanker.

I agree it was her problem, but not because it was on her parenting time, like if she had to go to the hospital, a wedding etc. I'd say take him. I got pissed because

number 1: she has the kid treating me like a criminal but expects ME to watch him? DH just told her recently the kid accused me of hitting him. She thinks that shits funny, and for all I know, she's trying to set me up (again, I know, I sound crazy). He didn't tell her they now go to MIL's for visits, but that's another story.

Number 2: She made the plans w/o even bothering to ask, she just DECIDED that's how it would be.

I'd like his answer tone to say, "I'm sorry due to a psychotic bitch, all incoming calls to this phone are being recorded by an automated answering system and they will be used to prosecute the psychotic bitch". LOL, I can daydream and laugh, or, I could answer the phone that way hahah.

I like the fart, though,very appropriate=== nothing but hot, useless, stinky air coming from the BM

"all the stammering and stuttering it sounded like he did makes me wonder what he says to her when you're not around..." Thanks! I feel so much better now lol. Seriously, I bet he doesn't say anything when I'm not around, but it's all good. I am going to help him figure this shit out. I've cooled down, and he's really a wonderful man. It's not a bad thing that he is trying to figure out how to keep the peace with his kid's mom.

We just have to make some changes and work on getting his responses to be more appropriate. I don't always know what to say in every situation myself. He is willing and that's what's important.

OMG! Do they give them BM's a handbook about how to constantly and continuously call the dads and harass them with their "professional, perfected parenting"? BM does the EXACT same shit. "Is he in bed? What did he eat? Where are you going? Who is there? It's raining" LMAO...

if she knew so much, why doesn't she have a man? why is she on her front step with water bugs galore seeking attention? why does she live in the hood? why is she calling us with nonsense instead of worrying about what she can do to teach SS manners, his alphabet, and how to tell the truth when he gets back home?

She could be at the library concerning herself with weight management, self-esteem, job searching or any other f'ing thing that would improve her life, but, instead, she calls to say, "This is Einstein. It's raining, so SS will need a hood on moron"