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Do any SP here feel that because they are not the Bio parents they are taken for granted n not appreciated?

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Submitted by prettyinpink on Thu, 10/04/2012 - 11:11am

Sometimes I feel like DH n SD dont c what I do for them n appreciate it.. I mean I do it out of kindness not to receive a novel price or anything, but still it hurts n pisses me off because it isnt my responsability n yet I still do it n no thank u or anything.. How dp u guys feel??

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Submitted by WickedStepMom18 on Thu, 10/04/2012 - 11:32am

It is a thankless job, sweetie - FOR SURE. It sucks especially when you see yourself doing MORE for the skid than his/her own BIOS. In my case - I deal with a father who considers himself a single dad. I'd love to see him really be a single dad. The billion things I do on a daily basis would all of a sudden be appreciated!!!

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Submitted by BSgoinon on Thu, 10/04/2012 - 1:27pm

DH makes me feel very appreciated. He is very mindful of all of the things I do for SS. I think I may be one of the exceptions around here though.

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Submitted by prettyinpink on Fri, 10/05/2012 - 12:01pm

I actualy haf a heart to heart with my DH yesterday n he was very understanding n reassured me that he does know that im a very good "step mom" to his daughter n tgat I do alot for her that even her mom doesnt .. So I feel better;) but I think skids should also c it, it would b nice