As. some know my ss's have choosen to not come here anyore claiming that dh works so whar isthe point. Dh says fine then i wont come get you or beg til you call and apologize for the disney thing and ask to come see me that way he will know they really want to see him. However yuck thinks they shouldnt have a choice and come here when dh is supposed to have them.

Yuck called dh yesterday and asked dh if he was going to get them this weekend as labor day is his time. Dh told her only if the boys call him and apologize and say they really want to see him. Yuck then told him again she didnt think they should get that choice and that he shouldnt have let them come home early from summer visit either. Dh is sticking tohis guns on this though.

I have told him the samething yuck did too that the boys shouldnt get a choice but dh seems to think it will teach them something.