I am so filled with joy, my friends!!!

Ss14 is gone! I had a freak out Tuesday night because he is so nasty and messy and will not pick up after himself nor will dh. I threw everything in the kitchen away. The dirty dishes, unopened food, everything! Then I find out ss has been keeping dead fish in his room. The house had been stinking to high heaven and no one knew why- now I do, ss was outside entertaining guests during this time. Guests we didn't know where even here. I told dh I was going to a hotel for a few days. Felt I needed to clear my head and think about some stuff. All 3 of my kids begged to go with said they can't be here with ss14. So I go to work the next day- think about it some more and decide a few days isn't going to change anything. I call dh and tell him the kid has to go.

Last night he went to a friends house and just a few minutes ago mil confirmed that she will take him again. Did I mention how filled with joy I am? My dh Did not hesitate to get him out of here. Frankly I think he was waiting for me to put down the ultimatum. Since this was decided yesterday he has been like a new man.