Ss18 calling Dh from jail...
Dh did accept the first call but there was literally only 2 minutes on his card I guess so it got disconnected, but ss18 did confirm that he was incarcerated for having sex with a 14 year old. Since then he's tried to call Dh a few other times and Dh has just chosen not to answer.
Honestly I'm really glad. They were not even speaking prior to ss's arrest and my guess is that he is only calling hoping Dh could pay bond. He had his initial hearing yesterday and they did not give him bond, consequently ss has not called since.
Every prediction and thing I've ever said about ss has turned out to be true. I predicted years ago he'd end up in Juvie, predicted once he was 18 he'd end up in jail, that he would be u able to maintain employment (he got his very first job on his 18th bday and was fired after 2 weeks then had another job briefly and got fired from that as well) and that of course he is a sexual predator. there is some sense of satisfaction that I was right, but also kinda sad that he has actually turned out worse than I could have imagined
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SS30 was in juvie for 3 1/2
SS30 was in juvie for 3 1/2 years. This was before I met DH so I don't know what horrible crime he committed. Could have been murder.
A few years go SS was arrested for beating up an elderly man. DH paid nothing and SS spent about 2 weeks in jail in lieu of paying a fine. SS's hobag GF at the time called hourly begging us to pay the fine.
Worthless POS people should be ignored no matter what the DNA connection.
Jail for him is the best
Jail for him is the best thing for all of us. He's off the street, the only person he can hurt now is his fellow inmates. With any luck he will be there for a long time.
Not your falt. There was nothing you could of done. It's his Mother and Fathers falt for him turning out this way
I am sorry you had to,get involved with this
Cheezus H Christ. A 14 year
Cheezus H Christ. A 14 year old. I posted this in before in someone else's blog on something similar that I literally cannot understand the frame of mind of someone who is no longer a minor finding a 14 year old sexually attractive much less have sex with them. Holy shitballs. So SS is a predator and a pedophile.
I'm glad your DH is not enabling him. I would leave a man if he had the ball to try and rationalize this.
If she was 15-16 then I may
If she was 15-16 then I may not be so quick to jump to that... 14 though... I have NEVER met anyone who looked they could pass for 18 at 14, and I went to school my whole life in a very metropolitan area... Maybe there are and I just never knew?
I mean I've met girls who look like they could pass for 14 when they were in fact, 18.. but the other way around...
I have seen lots of girls
I have seen lots of girls that are 14 that look a lot older. Girls in eastern US are bigger than they were 20 years ago and they start puberty earlier as well.
When I was 14, I could easily
When I was 14, I could easily pass for 18-19.
He knew how old she was and
He knew how old she was and didn't see it as a problem. Dh tried to ask him about her age when they first started dating and he lied to Dh.
When I was 14 I could easily
When I was 14 I could easily have passed for 17 or 18. Not just in looks but in maturity. Now I was not a hobag looking for sex so it didn't really matter. At 18 some people thought I was 25.
It is possible to deceive others about one's age.
Interesting. I still get
Interesting. I still get dirty looks for looking like a pregnant 12 year old with a 3 year old toddler, by people of my own race too! The grass is greener
My much younger sister looked
My much younger sister looked like she was 12 until she was 30+. One time a cop read her the riot act about having a beer when she was 28 years old. She had to go retrieve her driver's license from her car to placate him.
Her dad was letting him stay
Her dad was letting him stay the night there- essentially live there. Then the dad got arrested for a dui and synthetic marijuana and the girl and her sister were removed by the state. So the girl is In a group home now.
Honestly I would not support
Honestly I would not support my kids either if this ever happened. I have told them don't call me from jail ever.
Sorry about this, you must be sick in your stomach. Thank God your husband is letting his sons chips fall where they fall.
Imagine that retainer fee.
But Hey I bet your ss will have a public defender. Isnt that special