Disengagement...... FAIL !!!
I failed this weekend, was just fed up with what has been going on this week, and totally lost the disengagement plot...... started one of THOSE conversations you start with the DH, just KNOWING before you even start, you will come out looking like a jealous, nagging, ol' EVIL SM....... SIGH !!!
What pissed me royally off, you ask ??? Sd21 who hardly EVER memails DH, obviously, had a very slack week at lala central ( the place where she lives and goes to school) DH has been receiving LOTS of memails, and as he is so thankful, to get them he is sending back emails , of course. We have an open account for her, due to the secret squirrel activity in the past, so I see them, PLUS, we were out shopping and he recieved a memail, then went on to stop what we were doing, so he could READ it to me.... In the middle of the shop !!! WTF ???
The long and short of it, is, that sd21 is feeding him some lies, about sap bf, about what she has been up to, etc. DH is all excited to reply to the lies, and I cannot STAND it when he does this. So, I tell him, just remember to be careful, which between DH and I is the code, for remembering that sd21 is a Mythomaniac, and all, that, THAT entails. He asks, why, I explain, some of the lies, etc, he asks if sd21 is lying directly ABOUT him again ( online, in real life, etc) I say no these ONES are just TO you. DH says, oh, well, that's better than BEFORE, isn't it ??
Kinda happy about it ?? I am just non-plussed, am I missing something here ????
More conversation entailed, so I will probably blog it down on here, just didn't want to write a super long post and bore everyone to death...!!!
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no your not missing anything
no your not missing anything i think dh summed it up....
"DH says, oh, well, that's better than BEFORE, isn't it ??"
:jawdrop: i guess if you don't place any expectations (dh) then there isn't any to not be met which equals not being disappointed.