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They both are charging each other with Contempt of Court... LOL this will be fun.

DASKRA's picture

Finally heard from BM attorney. I guess she is also filing contempt charges on SO for not giving SD3 to her on his holiday. I guess when it states every other holiday and she has had Easter and the Next one was Memorial Day she doesn't have to let him have her? I don't know how this will go. Should be fun. SO does not want to back down now because he has too much crap on her to just through it away now.

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knucklehead's picture

I thought alternate holidays meant the same holiday alternates... like Easter in even years versus odd years...

DASKRA's picture

That's not all she did, she has denied all of his visitation since that "holiday" mix up if you want to call it that. Even if it wasn't his holiday it doesn't say in the CO, if you don't give me SD3 when I want her then I keep her until I want you to have her. This is not the first time she has done it either and she also uses, I will let you see her if you... pay me money, sign a paper,and so on. using the child as a pawn and controlling the situation. Plus we have proof.

SMof2Girls's picture

Our BM did that too in the beginning. Then we had our lawyer send a certified letter "clarifying" the CO and informing her that refusal to abide by the agreement would result in legal action.

Now she just gets the kids involved to make DH feel guilty, and he sometimes agrees.

DASKRA's picture

3.5 Holiday Weekends. Parents will alternate the following holiday weekends:
Martin Luther King, Jr. Day; President's Day; Easter; the 4th of July; Native
Americans' Day; and Thanksgiving. Thanksgiving will begin on Wednesday
evening and end on Sunday evening; Easter weekend will begin on Thursday
evening and end on Sunday evening; Martin Luther King Jr. Day, President’s Day,
and Native Americans' Day weekends will begin on the preceding Friday evening
and end on Monday evening; the 4th of July will begin the evening of July 3 at 5:00
p.m. and end the morning of July 5 at 10:00 a.m. Unless otherwise specified,
holiday weekends begin at 5:30 p.m. and end at 7:00 p.m. on the designated days.
The noncustodial parent will have Memorial Day weekend and the custodial parent
will have Labor Day weekend.

This is exactly what the guidelines state. Non-custodial parent will have memorial Day... No room for interpretation at all. I cut and pasted it straight from the guidelines. I didn't even know it said that in there and i have them memorized almost.

They were just revised on April 12, 2012

HadEnoughx5's picture

DH and BM do the even and odd years on the major holidays and then for instance DH had Easter this year, so BM got Memorial Day and we will have the 4th and then BM will have Labor Day. Halloween get celebrated with whom ever the skids are with for that day in visitation.