I seriously thought we were past this kind of bulls**t, but I guess I was wrong. This is long and I'm venting but I'm so pissed at DH right now.

Poor, poor pitiful skid, she's got it sooooooo rough. Now while I think Uberskank (BM) is a lazy, piece of shit, narcissistic Harpy, I'm TIRED of DH constantly making it the reason to bend over backwards for his kid. I'm completely fine with him doing good things for his kid but enough is enough. Seriously DH your kid is fucking PLAYING you again!!! And it's going to fucking bite us in the ass!!!

The skid has been having issues with Uberskank for about five months now. Some of it's the normal teenage (she's 16) pushing the limits with mom thing, I warned DH this would happen (so did a counselor). Some of it is honest resentment from the skid because Uberskank is a lazy bitch who feels it's the skid's responsibility to raise her sisters (the skid's little sisters are 8 & 9, each one of these girls has their own BD).

This last weekend she was supposed to be at our place for a visit. She asked DH if she could spend the weekend with a friend, they were thinking about going to the beach. He told her as long as Uberskank was fine with all of this, then he was too. He feels the skid deserves a break because Uberskank was hard on her about her progress report and grades. I need an eye-roll here.

Come to find out Uberskank was not okay with the skid going to the coast, because with the exception of the skids' friend, she didn't know the other kids involved or who was driving. DH was smart enough to agree with Uberskank and let his kid know she was not allowed to go to the friends' house.

Now all of this happened Friday afternoon. I was stuck at work, so DH went to go pick her up at the bus station in a city 45 minutes from where we live. I get a call a from DH asking if he could bounce something off of me. He asked me how I felt about the skid staying with the friend anyway. I explained that was up to him, since Uberskank only had an issue with the beach trip, not her staying with the friend. He said he would talk to the skid, get a promise not to head out with kids she doesn't know and let her spend time with her friend "Because I feel sorry for her and the way Uberskank has been treating her." Another eye-roll please.

Fine. Good. No skid this weekend. DH comes home full of stories about his wondrous child and her Evil Uberskank. If I roll my eyes any more they'll fall out. But what ticked me off is he started telling me that Uberskank had a problem with the beach trip (a day trip) only because she didn't know the other kids. I said that sounded reasonable to me. DH started to argue with me, saying that she's 16 now and it's time to give her a little freedom.

DH....really??? A little freedom is allowing her to go on a day trip to the beach with a few friends that you've met and know. I explained this to him and said "If skid was our child and you let her go to the beach without meeting these kids and getting their parents information, I would rip your head off and jam it up your ass." How could you let your 16 year old daughter go off with a few teenage boys you don't know?? These are not kids she goes to school with, they are friends of a friend who has made questionable choices in the time we've known her.

DH's only argument was that she's mature enough to be trusted. He kept trying to turn it around to make it sound like I think his kid is evil (well...he may have a point }:)). When I said this has nothing to do with his kid, it has to do with HIM making sure she is safe. Getting names, parents names and phone numbers. Possibly meeting these kids so they will associate a parents' face to the cargo they are carrying. DH responded, that's Uberksank's job. I trust the skid.

FUCK ME. I said DH, what would you do if I said 'Hey DH, I'm going to the beach with some friends this weekend. See ya, Bye!'. His response you might ask?? He said he'd ask ME who I was with, has he met them, who would be driving, where would we be going and when would I be back.

Really? Why would you ask me these questions? Don't you trust me? He said of course but I would want to know all of that still. I said why would you ask me these simple questions but not ask the skid these same question? He response.....I trust the skid and it's Uberkskank's job to get that information.

No DH....goddammit....it's your fucking job too.