Yuck has been sick which I did know however she texted dh to let him know she has been running a fever and asked if we could keep the boys til she is over this. I think it is best so that they don;t get sick too.

before she would have picked them up or better yet find a way to keep them from dh during xmas. Even last year she tried to pull something but this year she was very easy to work with. plus before this year she would have insisted on picking them up no matter what and then taken them to her aunts if she was sick.

i am thinking that she finally realized that I am not going anywhere and that dh is NOT coming back to her (dh has told her this bluntly to her face) and that dh IS their father and should be allowed to be their father.

Although I still think she tells everyone she can that dh is a dead beat and she does everything by herself with no help! But what is this?? Um dh HELPING her when she is sick!