Every year guilty daddy and I have gone all out for his skids plus the cost of shipping their hearts desire only to hear that their toys were in storage cause they don't have the room, left behind cause they had to move quickly, not recieved cause they moved and no one saw to it that they got it, never one "thank you", never one "merry christmas to you too daddy", never "can you get our little sisters something from us", never anything, just "I want..". At first I brushed it off cause they are young but if my 3 year old can ask me on her own to send her sisters something, ask to call them, get excited to pick something out for daddy and other family members then so can they and they don't. So they are getting a card with a small gift card each and a necklace each from their little sisters that they picked out. And then I posted on facebook all the things I got my girls and DH got mad cause he knows his ex will see and realize we gave the skids the shaft. I do not feel guilty one bit, we spent exactly half of what we spent on our BDs it's up to their family to make up the rest in my book. arghgghgh