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Entitlement at it's best.

purpledaisies's picture

As you ladies know sat was my bday. My dd came home from college and bought me a nice necklace and shirt. The necklace was a dragonfly which I love and have always loved dragonflies which is why she bought. I wore my necklace all day sat and that night and have been since I got it. Now i work nights and I had to work sat night.

So I went to work I knew that there is a girl at work that like dragonflies too but i didn't think anything of it who would right? I was in the break room along with her and a few other girls, I hear say "you suck" real loud of course I look up and she asked where did you get that? I thought she was talking about my out fit as I had a long day and just wasn't thinking and said the mall while pointing to my shirt. Then I hear my name so i had to go. I came back later in the night and she looked at me and said no your necklace where did you get it? I said oh my dd bought it for me for my bday. But before I could even get it all out she started talking over me and say things like she is the queen of dragonflies and things to the effect how she has been into them and blah blah balh I rolled my eyes and walked out. Now she didn't see me roll my eyes as she was looking at herself in her mirror from her purse. (way to into herself)

I at that point thought it was over but NO I came back to get something out of my purse at that point and the bouncer in front of a bunch of people back there said "why are you copying the dragonfly?" This guy we all know whats this girl and has a huge thing for her to the point he brings her gifts and money all the time. You come to your conclusions about that. Wink

So I am very upset as I realize that she is serious about this and she is making it very aware she doesn't want me to wear dragonflies. I looked at him and said MU DD BOUGHT THIS FOR ME FOR MY BDAY! walked out and slammed the door!

I was in shock as I never thought that someone would have the nerve to try to make someone not wear something b/c they think they have the right to be the only to wear it. :jawdrop:

I know my reaction was not the most mature thing to do but I was caught off guard and never thought that would happen.

I did wear my necklace again last night and she gave me worst nasty look ever and faked sick to go home. lol

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Kes's picture

God, what a sick, pathetic woman! Try not to let this sour your pleasure in your present. None of us can claim sole rights to members of the animal kingdom - how ridiculous! I happen to love dragonflies too, and have a number of earrings, a brooch and pictures of them. They are beautiful things that we should all be able to enjoy.

purpledaisies's picture

I have been into dragonflies for years long before I started there I even have a tat of a one. I just never wore anything that had one on it b/c I didn't have the one I wanted to til now. I didn't have much jewelry with dragonflies til lately but I have all kinds of dragonfly stuff in my yard and around the house. In fact my old email account is dragonfly.

purpledaisies's picture

That I am not sure of she is very private which is fine. But I didn't think she was serious til the bouncer said something to me. At that point I knew that she had to say something to him in order for him to even realize I was wearing a dragonfly as we all know men don't notice those things.