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GG's Counseling Appt RE: VD SD12

Auteur's picture

GG's counselor appt re: VD was YESTERDAY!

The counselor is *supposedly* an experienced SM (not to judge here but most likely a SMINO like the Behemoth herself)

According to the counselor, VD is "taking personal responsibility" for the breakup of her parents. However there is ZERO evidence of this in any of her writings to GG. In reality, the Behemoth's professional victimhood and rampant excuse making has been bestowed upon VD. To me this is just a manipulation technique to make GG feel bad that his poor widdle princess is taking blame for the breakup. GAG!

GG did say something funny however. He said to the counselor: "have you ever heard of parental alienation?" The counselor replied "yes."

GG: "Well if you look PA up in the dictionary, you'll see a picture of the Behemoth next to it!"

GG talks a good game and sounds strict and traditional when in conversation, but only I know that he breaks down and becomes disney/guilty dad in real life.

Upon hearing this, the counselor said "well I definitely see two different parenting styles." WTF?? Really GG and the Behemoth parent the same when getting right down to it, but GG *sounds* all strict and the counselor can definitely see where the Behemoth is a "free ranger."

His next appt is the 24th where he will meet with the counselor and VD.

In other news, it seems that the Behemoth is now fostering TWO teenage children who are freely interacting with all three skids. In fact, I saw the latest "addition" (teen boy) "babysitting" Prince Hygiene this past Monday. No adults in site.

Nice.

Get out your popcorn.

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doll faced sm's picture

Do you get any time alone with this counselor w/o GG and VD in the same room? Can you suggest it? Even if it's just 5 minutes so that she can get your side of the story. Family counseling when all family members are present typically doesn't work because the party or parties who typically suffer in silence for fear of upsetting whomever tend to remain in silence. Maybe take a notepade and pen in w/ you so that when someone says something that just rings your bell, you'll have it right there in front of you to be able to give the counselor the real low down.

starfish's picture

well, kudos to gg for playing the game right and "sounding" good! he's probably just tickled pink to be "involved"

and i forget, how long have they been apart, years, right? behemoth has everyone learning the "victim" role.. good grief, long ugly road ahead..

can't wait for part 2!

how's the house and exit plan coming along?

Auteur's picture

The exit plan is proceeding. . . of course money in tight in this wonderful regime's economy!!

It's been a year and a half since PH has set foot here and about 2 1/2 to 3 years since VD and Brainiac have been here.

As for talking to the counselor individually, it's a moot point. As far as EVERYONE is concerned, I'm a persona non-grata so I don't get a say.

And as far as ruining other children, it's the $$$$$$ doncha know. I know this regime has made a huge tax credit for fostering/adopting kids these last two years. I see they are taking FULL advantage of it AS WELL AS the home buyers credit (they waited until you DIDN'T have to pay it back)

I wish I had the money that the Behemoth and Slan had! I could have been DONE with my exit plan YEARS ago!!

Auteur's picture

That's just it. She doesn't care as she's a crappy non-parent and free ranger.

If anything BAD happens she can just blame it on GG, the break up and me.