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Submitted by mommy_of_4 on Tue, 03/22/2011 - 8:39am

My husband thinks that I am just so horrible to his DD that he always threatens to install nanny cams to prove how awful I am. He told me that I am so awful that dr.Phil would lay into me if he did tape me and were to show it to him. I think if he installed nanny cams he would see what an evil little bitch he and BM have created. Yes, I have my moments but a person can only be pushed so far and he doesn't seem to want to listen. That little bitch can do whatever and always comes out smelling like a rose. One day he will see the evil spawns he has created and when he does, I hope it hits him like ton of bricks and stops blaming me for everything!! How can you claim to love someone so much and yet always think the worst of them??

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Submitted by mommy_of_4 on Tue, 03/22/2011 - 8:49am

He always tells me how any other man would have divorced me if I treated their kids the way I do his. His spoiled bitches just don't like the fact that I won't allow them to treat me like shit. I am not BM who is trying to be their "friend". I want my kids to grow up to be respectable people in society and I will not allow my kids to treat me like trash and therefore his won't either.
In regards to the whole nanny cam thing, well his little spawns act totally different when daddy is around. They act like they are so sweet and perfect and I am just being mean and picking on them. The funny thing is I can snap at one of my kids for doing something and if I snap at his, I am being mean and picking on them. And I totally hate how he can change the rules that we have agreed on because it benefits his kids. And all the rules we have made in our house, we made together and yet constantly throws in my face how I made this rule and I made that rule. GRRRR....

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Submitted by mommy_of_4 on Tue, 03/22/2011 - 9:18am

Well my situation is really complicated. NO I am not making excuses. My DH and I met online. My kids and I lived in Canada and moved here to be with him. When we got together he decided he wanted us to have one together. I already had 3 (10 months, 2 1/2 and 4 1/2) and he had 2 (7 and 11). I was open to the idea so we started trying. Soon after we decided we were going to wait but we slipped up and I got pregnant. So we now have a DD who is now 5. She is an american citizen and well so is he. I am not. I have wanted to leave multiple times but he won't let me take her and no judge is going to allow me to move her away from her dad to another country. So, even though sometimes i do stay for him, I mainly stay for her. I won't leave my child behind. I do stay mainly because of my kids. He is very good to them and it would totally destroy them if we left and they couldn't see him anymore. I know its not right to stay with someone for the kids but he is not physically abusive and my kids are not being hurt. I will do anything for my kids. Even if it means taking a few low blows once in a while and having to deal with 2 very evil spawns. Its been nearly 6 years and I won't do that to my kids. Sad

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Submitted by mommy_of_4 on Tue, 03/22/2011 - 9:20am

he doesn't watch Dr.Phil...he thinks all therapists and psychiatrists are quacks. But he knows I like to watch.

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Submitted by Auteur on Tue, 03/22/2011 - 9:01am

Yeah I'd put up cams like nobody's business but not tell the little princesses!!

And don't tell him either!

I saw Dr. Phil a bit today :sick: and he was berrating this one disciplinarian father for disciplining his DD13. Now I admit some of things he did was a bit overboard, but for the most part, he had the right idea! That kids should address the parents upon entering the home and not the other way around, etc.

Dr. Phil jumped on him and called him "abusive" Obviously Dr. Phil never had a DAUGHTER who are manipulative by nature (boys are too but just not that sneaky generally speaking)