I have been fighting an on going battle for nearly 6 years. You think things are getting better and then more shit starts. I live with sd13 who is a pathelogical liar. She is purely evil and is a sympthy whore. You put those 2 together and its a really REALLY bad combination. Then you have sd17, who doesn't live with us but is completely obsessed with daddy dearest. I guess her friends could care less about her life and so then she turns to daddy for the sympathy and attention. DH has developed this obsession with precious sd17 and they text ALL the time. From the time he gets home from work until he goes to bed. And nearly everyday. Am I F***ING crazy?? Is there really nothing wrong with that?? We can't even go out to the bar and have fun for a night without him picking up the phone to text her. I am ready to SCREAM!!! Do I just accept the shit my life is?? Its far more complicated then people understand. I just don't know what to do. Do I go and get meds and live my life medicated until I seriously can't take anymore?? I don't want to hate my life. Sometimes I hate him SOOOO much I just want to smash his face in. The best option for me would be to file immigration and then get a job and get on my feet and then leave him and this fucked up mess behind. This way I would still get to see my daughter more then 3 months out of the year. But how do I grin and bear it for another 7 months??