Babymama trying to render us homeless...
The situation with babymama has been a thorn in my ass for the past three years. But she's been a bane to SO for far longer.
Last night we got a notice of garnishment for an apartment she took out IN HIS NAME ONLY, because she still had the power of attorney he was forced to get when he was in the military about to deploy. All that chick has done has used it to take out stuff in his name and then not pay for it.
I hate her. His kids only call when it's close to Christmas and birthdays. I don't care about their feelings anymore. I'm sorry, I don't. My son is about to be tested for autism, he may not even have a Christmas while they live in the damn mall. The hell with them.
We might be homeless by Christmas. He knows he should have fought her earlier, got the damn divorce (they've been separated 10 years and I didn't know that until I was 8 months pregnant), contested her behavior in court. Now he sees, and he's finally seeing what living with these issues has done to me.
If I was able to work through my pregnancy it might have been ok. But I almost died having that child, and drug myself through his first year. I'm going to do my best to find a job, SO is getting a second job. But we have to bust our tails while babymama lives off of his dime in a house that's 1/4 of what we pay for an apartment.
The lawyer suggested we sue. I fully plan to. To the tune of 20K. B*tch be afraid. Be very afraid. You're ghetto fabulous, and all you know is how to fight. People find out all too late that my mind and will are horrible adversaries to have.
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I might go so far as to say
I might go so far as to say it could possibly be criminal behaviour. I would go to the police with this.
Takes a lot of nerve your BM.
I think it would be fraud
I think it would be fraud either way. A POA is only for if the person can't speak for themselves.
It is fraud, and if I can
It is fraud, and if I can convince SO to press charges, I will. Her call-girl sister is trying to threaten me because I'm finally speaking out. Um, first of all, BM's familly are all inbreeds and mine is not. Secondly, all the males in my family are well known for their street credibility, so "the hills have eyes" can try it if they dare.
I am so blown.
Yep. But according to the
Yep. But according to the lawyer, she's still committing fraud. Oh, believe me he knows what an idiot he was for not getting divorced. Even if he never married again, you get divorced!
When he told me he was separated, I thought it had been for the customary year. I didn't find out otherwise until much later. Yeah, this situation is messed up, but I've invested too much in it now. And so long as my laundry list of demands are met, we can rebuild. But not until temple to the sheisty ass babymama is demolished.
Isn't it a FEDERAL crime to
Isn't it a FEDERAL crime to commit fraud? Especially with a military POA? I would file as many damn charges against her as possible. But I'm just a bitch that way
Well the garnishment isn't as
Well the garnishment isn't as bad as we thought, because of the child support already coming out. Still, it needs to be revoked. But we are going to drag her ass through the court system so much she gets rug burns.
MamaK, I disagree with one
MamaK, I disagree with one thing you said:
I've invested too much into it now.
You have NEVER invested too much to walk away if needed. I am not saying you SHOULD, just never box yourself in a situation like that, please.
That is true. And I've told
That is true. And I've told SO that this is going to be an uncomfortable time for him, that he's going to have a lot of people telling him that he should have taken care of this problem a long time ago (because he needs so much help to do so now), and that he's going to have to swallow his pride and admit he needs help and take the advice given him. I told him that if he does not do this, then Little Man and I will have to leave, because we do not deserve to live in poverty because Daddy couldn't get his shit straight.
I'm a bit irritated this morning, because SO's mom (who SO had to go to to ask for help for a legal fee) doesn't really believe that BM is in as deep of trouble as she is. I don't know why people think you need a lawyer for every damn thing, justice is justice, and you do not have to pay thousands of dollars to get a judge to see that someone used a bad POA. She says to me something to the effect of "I know you think you're so smart". I get that crap from everyone.
We'll be seeing his parents this weekend, and I will let them all know, look....this is not my problem, so please respect the work I have done to help your son. Do not insult my ability to think just because I ask questions when I have them. That's how I get my info. Jeez, you'd think it was rocket science.