I hope the hell i cry, cuz if i don't im gonna hurt sd9...now effin hd. SD came home with mudd all over bottom of socks...yep she can do what ever she wants and guess what, Guilty Daddy wont tell her about it cuz she will cry. So i pointed out the socks and he lets her continue through the house, through the carpet, and just say's, make sure you take them off..she says ok like all nicey and shit. Um why the hell would you let her go all through the house and not make her take them off right away.
So we go for our now usual walk and the whole time im flipping,not about the freaking socks, about him disrespecting me, our marriage, for not telling her to take them off and telling her to not play in the wet muddy grass again with shoes off. I assume they were on her boyfriends trampoline and then had a little chase each other in the grass after. Yes, i said boyfriend. I once told her she didn't need a boyfriend but she said she wanted one cuz he makes her feel comfortable. I cried, told dh, and he said nothing. Effin parent your kid you sick bastard. I know i should disengage and not care, but i am a good person and i do care. I can't handle the disrespect and i will not live this way when my kids are gone in 3 1/2 years. That is exactly what i told him on the way back from walk once i got my bearings. I will not live with someone who wont return the respect by simply making your kid follow some simple rules. Its not a big deal he said. No it aint a big effin deal, your not telling her to take them off and not do it again tomorrow night, thats is bullshit. What next. She walks around doing whatever she wants, paint all over her carpet, cuts her bangs for attention, cuts my curtains in her room, steals my hairsprays, uses my condition when i tell her not to, throws my face lotions down the drain, breaks my son's guitar, gouches the hell out of my wooden kitchen chair. All of those ended with dh and i fighting and her laughing cuz he will not yell at her or make her accountable. I can't and will not stay. I can disengage until it starts to affect me personally. So, now i sit her with my dirty sneakers on, yes on the carpet and oh effin well if you have to wash floors every day. If its no big deal buddy then wash them.