Skids missed school Monday because BM went to a steelers game and she left the kids with a friend. The friend apparently couldn't/wouldn't take them to school. DH got a call from school saying they were absent. DH called me flipping out what a lazy b*tch she is and said the school said she would get charges for this cuz it is repetitive. My SS11 stayed with us last night cuz BM wont take him to basketball so we do.

Dissengaging still pissing the hell out of SD9. I put my computer screen up high on a pillow on my lap so she can't stare and glare at me cuz i have told her it bothers me so she does it more. I asked DH today to tell her to stop Hi and bying me for the sake of looking like she is being nice. She wont speak to me and I am dissengaged and don't give a shit. Her brother, SS11, told me she told her mom i was being sarcastic by saying hi and buy and that she hates it when i do it, so she is doing it to piss me off. I can't believe a child can be so vindictive and nasty.

Since I have dissengaged, SD9 has nothing bad to report to daddy so she told her mom last week she wants to be at her house more, it is 50/50. DH doesn't know yet, SS 11 told me this morning. There has been no fighting and that is what she thrived on. It was the only kind of relationship DH & SD shared, she complains about his wife and he would get mad and fight with me. She would get happy and start talking when we would fight. This has been happening for the last 5 years. We have separated twice because of it so she knows she had control over our marriage.

My 18 y/o son had wisdom teeth out so HD is a little jeolous that i am taking care of him. (i think that is what got him started) DH making annoying noises with throat, whistling loudly, and trying to annoy my son who is in pain and very irritable because I won't talk to SD9. My son keeps asking him to stop and he continues. Okay, now he chased my son out of living room cuz he can't take him aggitating him.