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Submitted by step-mommy dearest on Sun, 09/26/2010 - 5:37am

we broke up...
and he blames me! imagine that! Thats ok...
Im 20 & still have my whole life in front of me!

Thank you to all of you that helped me!
and Good Luck to all of you!

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Ingrid's picture

Submitted by Ingrid on Sun, 09/26/2010 - 10:56am

May you find your happiness with your own family and have your children with someone you trust.
Good luck.

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Submitted by zenjetset on Sun, 09/26/2010 - 2:08pm

Yeah, when you are in your 20's you should be dating men that DO NOT HAVE KIDS AND A CRAZY ASS BM.

There will be plenty of time for you to meet someone else with child(ren) when you are in your 40's. After all 50% of marriages end in divorce! Go out live life, travel and focus on a career. In the end, the RIGHT man will come along and it will be perfect with or without a child and BM.

It is hard for you now, but be strong. Read all the posts here as a remimder of what you lost - - sleepless nights, struggles with money because BM exsessive CS, biofamily issues, skipskids who verbally and physically abuse themselves and YOU and SO, the list is endless. Everything we all go through in order to keep our marriage/relationships intact!

I'm sure you're sad and bummed out, but you are young and beautiful...your own personal baggage is small. There are many fish in the sea! Now go fish!! Wink

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Submitted by caregiver1127 on Sun, 09/26/2010 - 3:43pm

Your BF did the best thing - he broke up with you and now you can move on and start to enjoy your life. And remember the next time you see a guy that you are attracted to the first question to ask him is "DO YOU HAVE ANY CHILDREN" - and if he says yes the only reason you would stay is because he is George Clooney's identical brother and has the same amount of money as George and the kids live with their mother 3000 miles away - and you have visitation twice a year in Italy in a villa with 20 servants and a nanny right next door to George Clooney - lol. If that is not the situation then run like hell!!!

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Submitted by caregiver1127 on Sun, 09/26/2010 - 3:44pm

PS - If you meet a great guy stop in and let us know - it would be good to hear good news on here!!

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Submitted by step-mommy dearest on Sun, 09/26/2010 - 4:54pm

ill prolly keep blogging.. i know im not a sm... but i like you guys...

how sad is that? I think i need a life!

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Submitted by caregiver1127 on Sun, 09/26/2010 - 5:07pm

It is just that you start to feel like a family and you don't want to lose the family - we have a few people on here that are no longer stepmoms but stay anyway - we can all give you advice on the wonderful men that you will now have a chance to meet. Also not to be mean but if that is a picture of the two of you - he was dating way out of his league and was lucky to have you- you are really pretty and deserve to have someone give you all of their attention - not be with someone you have fight to get some time with so not worth it.

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Submitted by step-mommy dearest on Sun, 09/26/2010 - 7:48pm

thank you very much! and yes that is us!
I always thought i was dating out of my league bc im bigger and he is skinny....
lol
makes me feel good to know other ppl think just the opposite!
and your right,... i do feel like a family on here! I check this as much as my facebook!

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Submitted by WHERESMYWART on Sun, 09/26/2010 - 4:15pm

Good luck to you. I am so sorry to hear of your relationship going sour but always be thankful as others have posted for the learned life lesson.:)

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Submitted by iwishyouwould on Sun, 09/26/2010 - 7:51pm

Hey - go out and party on a tuesday night for me!!!! Be early 20s for both of us! Dont look back. Screw that guy.

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Submitted by step-mommy dearest on Sun, 09/26/2010 - 9:46pm

ok.. the bar i go to is called "The Barn" they dont have those! Smile
I can do a shot of something a mixed drink or a beer! Smile