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Skid has no respect for my cookware or home

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Submitted by Bface on Sun, 09/12/2010 - 5:25pm

Yes, and when he does get his dad to buy all the expensive food at the health food store he leaves a f'ing mess and insists on using my Caphilon cookware with no non-stick coating so all the rice, oats and s_it he makes stick to it. He also refuses to use dish washing detergent to clean the pans (I guess not organic enough!). Ultimately, I thought it was easier for me to cook to avoid the mess and double work it creates for me...but no more. I'm moving into the library...

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Submitted by Bface on Sun, 09/12/2010 - 5:32pm

That's a good idea. Although, I won't know the b/s on the latest organic cookware and he'll refuse to use what I choose! lol

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Submitted by caregiver1127 on Sun, 09/12/2010 - 5:39pm

Here's a thought - depending on how old he is - tell him to go buy his own or go with him and pay for some of it and he pays for some of it. And tell him this is because he can't clean up after himself and you like your cookware and want it to last.

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Submitted by caregiver1127 on Sun, 09/12/2010 - 5:45pm

Rags - lol - I was going to ask if it was like Kosher pots and pans - can only organic food be cooked in it - and I would think the non-stick pans would not be appropriate incase the coating flecked off - that's a thought to tell SS maybe he will get so worried he will get his own. And now I realize he is 24 make him buy his own.

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Submitted by Bface on Sun, 09/12/2010 - 7:20pm

That is correct, Non-stick is what he considers to be very bad. DH just informed me that he plans on staying for a month. He spent one week with BM and 2nd husband, but I'm sure he won't be going back there. So we're looking at a couple of weeks, I'm sure. He told his dad that he just wouldn't come home at Christmas. Wouldn't that be a better time for the farm to have him "off-work"? I think he doesn't know what he wants to do and is buying time. I don't think the farm owners want him to come back. They eat meat and are probably tired of accommodating him and telling him what needs to be done because he doesn't think to do on his own or ask.