Ever since I "called her out" for using GD to get what she wanted, she has poisoned her brother against DH. Not that he was ever normal, he uses passive agressive behavior to control DH, instead of overt threats like SD29, to get what he wants (usually to f--- with his dad's head).

I have been dealing with her entitlement issues for years. I didn't speak up until she began hurting GD with us as the weapon. I was livid! She also considers herself the most important woman in her father's life and that I must take a backseat, while she, "the queen", gets all of her financial needs met. He allowed her to move into his nice 3 BR ranch at a low rental rate when he moved in with me. She trashed the place and moved out 'cause she didn't want him telling her to maintain important things.

Yes, and when he does get his dad to buy all the expensive food at the health food store he leaves a f'ing mess and insists on using my Caphilon cookware with no non-stick coating so all the rice, oats and s_it he makes stick to it. He also refuses to use dish washing detergent to clean the pans (I guess not organic enough!). Ultimately, I thought it was easier for me to cook to avoid the mess and double work it creates for me...but no more. I'm moving into the library...