Well I had a terrible day yesterday…came home from work to the skids and hubby. I just needed some time alone so I immediately changed clothes and then sat on the porch and read. During this time, the girls were picked up by BM and I didn’t get an opportunity to say goodbye. Not saying goodbye isn’t that unusual, my oldest SD is 11 and very on and off with that kind of thing – she is right in the middle of puberty. I was (I am admitting this) terribly cranky – I didn’t want to take it out on the kids or my DH so I just sat alone for a while. When I came back inside my hubs, the kids were gone and I had a minor argument (about the skids, rando other stuff, just me being a bit cranked out), we worked it out and the rest of the night was fine. Before bed, I went online to check my Facebook account and found that my SD has deleted me from her friends list. I know this is just Facebook, but I have no idea what I have done to warrant that and frankly it hurt a little. I brought it up to my husband and he said she probably did it on accident, that he knows she likes me and that he would call and ask her about it. I immediately asked him not to, I decided that if she feels angry or hurt by me (still no idea why) than she should be allowed to feel that way. I thought all night about what I might have done to anger her so badly…and I can’t think of anything. Her mom and I are not close, but I never speak ill of her in front of SD. I do know that lately, I have been standing up for myself with SD…saying things like, “Please do not talk to me disrespectful” (she doesn’t say mean things aimed at me specifically, rather the normal hormonal stuff teen gals go through – being bossy, etc.). I can’t think that would set her off, but I don’t know. I am wondering if I just let it go and say – Oh well, no big deal. Or if I should have my DH talk with her to see if she is okay. I feel silly getting so bent out of shape about something like Facebook, but it is so odd. And to top it off, she is still friends with my mom, brother and best girlfriend. Only I was removed, I think that’s why it hurts my feelings.