We are going to Tx and Co for vac. We are taking my step son, no biggie. My dd has to work and wants to stay to get the money, my ds ha nothing to do and kinda wanted to go. I understand why. Anyway dh told me that he would like it to be just the his boys. I understand b/c I feel the same way about my kids some times and we haven't taken them to Co yet. My son has been top the rocky mts and such with us. Ds will stay with my mom and some with my brother. I know he is disappointed so am I but I explained to him that he has already gone with us once and we are also going back 2 more times this year and he will be going on one of those if not both.

So I do understand where dh is coming from and I am going to let him do it this way. I am just a tad disappointed but I'll get over it as will my son b/c not everything in life will be fair. Although it will be fair since we have already taken him and planning on taking him again.

I am only posting this to help others with situations like this. Thanks all