Birthday Party

Ok my youngest baby is about to turn three and the BM family lives 3 hours away. Which means that they always have two parties for both the girls, one here with all their friends and DH family, and one in her old home town. Well BM told DH that this year he was not invited to babys birthday this year, because she said that she didnt want him there. I told DH to screw the BM and that was his child just as much as his. Who comes off thinking that they can tell their chikds father that they can not come to their own childs b-day party!

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I'm in the separate party

I'm in the separate party camp with BlendedFam. MUCH easier on everyone.

I'm confused too.You said

I'm confused too.You said they have separate parties but then you seem pissed that he can't go to the party the bm is having.

No joint parties for us by the way. Separate means separate.

Yeah I'm a tad confused too.

Yeah I'm a tad confused too. However we do our own bday parties here for the boys and she does hers no joint ones. For one bm has tried to get my ds arrested several times and accused him of messing with one of the boys so NO WAY will I or my kids be around that so called person!

ETA: bm does the kid invited parties and we do just the family and cake one.

ok again ... They have two

ok again ... They have two parties one here with DH parents, and one in BM home town with her parents. She told DH that he is not invited to the bday party that DH parents hold for the little girl.