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I am so angry....I noticed that my SS15 was on fb all day on thursday so I told my hubby and he talked to SS15 and apparently he took a half day so that he could go see his brother wrestle at state...seems ok to me...but then guess what darling hubby is now blocked from SS15 facebook page. So I call my hubby and tell him and guess what...I am the one that is yelled at...how dare I call him at work to tell him this...we talk while he is at work all the time...it is not like he is a brain surgeon and i pulled him out of a surgery...i actually just called his phone and did not even leave a message. so when he gets a moment he calls me back and i am the bad guy....why would his page be blocked....can't even look him up...not just removed from friends but blocked if you are not doing anything wrong...and i am the bad guy. i am so sick of SS15 being a butt head and it being ok...i am so sick of being a step-parent and treated like crap...i bet i could call my hubby and tell him ss15 is in jail and somehow it would be my fault...all we do is give...all we do is buy him things then he wants more...or an upgrade...and if we don't he tells mommy and all hell breaks loose...i cannot even talk to him about ss15 without a fight. ss15 talked our bs4 into sticking jelly bellys up his nose...2 or them and we could not get them out...then his nose started to bleed cuz it was so far up there...so luckily we had navigation and found a hospital close and after $300 my darling ss15 is laughing....i don't even know how to deal with this anymore...it is so much easier when ss15 is not here on the weekends...i am always on edge when he is here waiting for the next thing...it seems like he is always trying to get bd4 in trouble...and he is 4.....ideas??? anyone?

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Thetis's picture

You and your dh need to talk about this stuff. You need to respectfully let him know how you feel. And then listen to what he has to say. If you feel like you are doing too much stop doing it and let Dh know why.

Last-Wife's picture

I ahve come to the realization everything will always be my fault. It's easier for DH to be mad at me than to realize his parenting stinks...

And, I've told him this to his face before. He got angry, and I told him it was because he knew I was right!

"I HAD to pick the road less traveled..."