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lyndee's picture

Submitted by lyndee on Mon, 08/03/2009 - 10:26am

i have a 17 yr old stepson he is very disrespectful to me i really cant stand it. he is rude to adults lies all the time.he cause things between his dad & i.he is jealous of his siblings tries to hit on them & get them in trouble when he is in trouble.he dont talk to his bio mom says he dont like her.(she is probably glad he is gone) his dad knows all this & still takes up for him sometimes but also punish him when he thinks its needed & yells at me in front of him.my husband is disrespectful to me as well.any suggestions? thanks, ready to leave

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Amazed's picture

Submitted by Amazed on Mon, 08/03/2009 - 11:21am

you horrible woman! Wink How dare you not like a person who sounds like a complete jackass??? what the heck is wrong with you?? lol, honestly, I can't think of any suggestions except to tell you that you have every right to dislike this person. He seems to be a very destructive force and someone needs to get to the bottom of why he is being this way.

The thing that impresses me most about America is the way parents obey their children. ~Edward, Duke of Windsor, Look, 5 March 1957

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Submitted by nofear74 on Mon, 08/03/2009 - 11:43am

I too wish that I had some good advice for you, but unfortunately I don't. As a matter of fact, if I did have some advice for you, I'd take it myself also. I've really tried over the past 5 years to be a good stepdad to my SS, but he doesn't make it easy...AT ALL! I like that last quote from BBB about parents obeying their children...ain't that the truth? At least in my wife's world it is. Well, anyway, good luck!!! Take care and I'll say a prayer for you.

Steve Shafer

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Submitted by goodmom on Mon, 08/03/2009 - 11:51am

you this but you don't have a step kid problem...you have a dumb husband problem. Kids will be a-holes as long as their paretns allow them.

Having a baby does not make you a mother.

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Submitted by Abigail on Mon, 08/03/2009 - 12:41pm

I'd leave. DH may come around when you walk out. Mine did. I was ready to march out the door and DH says "Oh, I didn't realize you were that upset" and finally does something about it. Too little too late. Now I don't like his nasty kids and am not really interested in being part of the family but am trying.

"Evil Stepmothers aren't born, it comes with the territory"