Hes failing one of his core classes. AGAIN. This has already been done. Which is why we go through his bookbag in the first place, which is why we keep finding these horrific drawings. He lies about homework, so my husband literally has to search his bookbag to make sure hes not "forgetting" any assignments, which doesnt even help because DH makes him do the assignment and then CrazyPants "forgets" to turn it in.

GoAwayPlz, he did draw that.... well sorta, it was two people in sleeping bags in a puddle of blood, a man with a gun and thought bubble " I finally killed my mom and dad" that was the first one we found. Together MIL and DH rationalized that CraxyPants wasnt talking about us, he was talking about BM and her husband. But that was a year ago.

This is a whole new slew of crap, Im wondering if he wants to see just how ffar he can take it.

Dtzy, when we got FTC and he would say the Nazi stuff and that he was a Nazi, I did excatly what you are talking about. I made him sit through hours of documentaries regarding WW11 to see excatly what he was trying to identify with. I guess it doesnt bother him.

I have been trying to get DH to get him back therapy for almost a year to no avail. Which is excatly why Im considering taking it to the school. Hes doing these drawings in his school notebooks while on the premises. DH always says hes gonna call and never does. I really dont think he realizes what a big deal any of it is.

This is his rationale for all his drawing, including the ones about rape and beastality. He says that "its a joke" and "other boy x thinks its funny" and "its not a big deal"

Honestly his mom and stepdad have some real crazy ideals which came out in therapy a couple of years ago. Like they make him shave his head and taught him that other races, homosexuals, and especially WOMEN are inferior, as per the Bible, so I wonder if this doesnt actually stem from that.

I dont sleep. Well, I do, but not much. I live on caffine. I sleep on the couch in the living room most nights so I can hear if door opens. My baby sleeps in a room on the complete opposite side of the house, so he would have to walk by me to get there, and my other boy sleeps down the hall from him, but Im right there. Usually awake reading, or posting here. After everything I have seen from that kid I dont trust him. And if Im not out there then I let my husband sleep out there. I do not let my kids go unattended with that child in the house at all. I might bank 5 hours total on a regula r night from 4a to 9a. Saturday nights he stays with his grandma so I sleep.good for a long time on Saturday night lol.

Thanks for reading my past blogs. I really appreciate it because I think whatever this new slew of crap is, its an additional symptom of a much deeper issue. While I appreciate the diversity on the board, we are all targeted by his drawings because we are all inferior in some way in his mind. Yes, he's 11 and none of what he does, thinks, or says is "normal" for anybody, much less an 11 year old.

Somebody mentioned taking him to chruch. While on the surface I can see what you trying to say by suggesting that, and I appreciate any suggestion that might help us or him., chruch IS NOT the place that this kid needs to seek salvation. His mothers cultlike brainwashing, and insane intertrepations of the bible is where a lot of this stuff stems from. We do actually allow him to attend church twice a week with his grandma. We thought if we allowed him to go to a chruch he would realize that his mamas version of Christianity is insane and he would learn to think more critically about believing every word that comes out of that crazy womans mouth. Boy oh boy did that backfire. Instead he twists everything everybody else says about the religion in.his head until it matches what his mama said and then uses it as proof that shes right. No matter what shes always right about everything everytime.

Furthermore, the antisemitic stuff is not why I dont sleep. This kid is aggressive and cruel, sneaky and manipulative. The more he gets in trouble the more he lashes out. Mostly at me, but sometimes at my 5 year old. He fanatasizes about child rape and mass murdering of children (other drawings pretty much line up with that thought), he also fantasizes about rape and subordination of women (well except his mama because she is exalted), so I dont sleep because in some strange way I think Im protecting my kids by not sleeping.

Thank you guys so much for the suggestions. I really appreciate you all takinv the time to read about my problems and doing your best to help me solve them. Im going to do a little more research and see what my options are regarding the school. I say this because if his dad doesnt realize the seriousness of this stuff, then me taking over (yet again) and simply putting him therapy is NOT gonna work. The last therapist told DH that CrazyPants was fine and just needed a little help adjusting to a new home, so the main issue is that Daddy Dearest doesnt believe anything is wrong. So far nothing I have said to him has changed that opinion of his "poor misunderstood" kid. Im hoping maybe if he hears it from an authority figure maybe that will change his beliefs.

Thank you guys so much. I appreciate your time, understanding, and suggestions. I really do. It means a lot to me that we can all come here and be heard and supported.

We have FTC, we got it two and half years ago. Damage was already done. Bio mom kept CrazyPants isloated in the wilderness for almost five years, away from society, homeschooling him, and PASing him. Until two and half years ago he had never been exposed to very much real life. Like his mom would only go groceryshopping once a month and he might only go with her every few months. He sees his mom for two weeks during Christmas, and two months during the summer.

I think the CIA needs her expertise on how to brainwash, because shes scary good at it. Thats the orignal reason we had him in therapy, because he had a lot of difficulties adjusting to our home and being a member of real society. DH took him out bc the stupid therapist said he was fine and only needed to see her before and after visits with his mom.

The therapist who performed his pysch eval told we were "so lucky" we got FTC before he hit puberty and the weird ideals his mama gave him became "concrete." I think we were already to late, and now we have to figure out how to keep him from hurting other people once that testerone hits real hard.

But, really, Im just wondering if theres no help for him even with therapy because his mom parents and grandparents are sociopathetic and his mom is sociopathetic. Whether its hereditary or not is irrevelant because not only was born with it, but he learned from the best to.

We have FTC, we got it two and half years ago. Damage was already done. Bio mom kept CrazyPants isloated in the wilderness for almost five years, away from society, homeschooling him, and PASing him. Until two and half years ago he had never been exposed to very much real life. Like his mom would only go groceryshopping once a month and he might only go with her every few months. He sees his mom for two weeks during Christmas, and two months during the summer.

I think the CIA needs her expertise on how to brainwash, because shes scary good at it. Thats the orignal reason we had him in therapy, because he had a lot of difficulties adjusting to our home and being a member of real society. DH took him out bc the stupid therapist said he was fine and only needed to see her before and after visits with his mom.

The therapist who performed his pysch eval told we were "so lucky" we got FTC before he hit puberty and the weird ideals his mama gave him became "concrete." I think we were already to late, and now we have to figure out how to keep him from hurting other people once that testerone hits real hard.

But, really, Im just wondering if theres no help for him even with therapy because his mom parents and grandparents are sociopathetic and his mom is sociopathetic. Whether its hereditary or not is irrevelant because not only was born with it, but he learned from the best to.