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Im just so tired of SD13!!!!!!!!!! What am I gonna do now that summer's coming?? UGH!!

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Submitted by Yme on Tue, 05/31/2011 - 5:27pm

My Sd13 is such a nasty rude person.....she has stolen my daughter's Ipod....burned paper in my home and constantly LIES about me.......the disrespect is unbelivable....the fact that DH doesnt stop it hurts me to my core!!!!!!!!my list could go on and on........
DISENGAGE I know....but I need a mean wicked baby sitter...on who can see through the BS SD does and says....One to live in and saty with SD while I enjoy the summer with my Bio's......THEN I could "enjoy" my summer....

I am just at my wits end!! I dont want her to be home with me over this summer...her school is closing so they wont have a summer term...SO I am stuck with her......NO I cant take her to camp or send her to her BM....they dont really have a camp that would work because she is so manipulative and fights...I can really put her in a camp and deal with the aftermath....not fair to the other kids or parents...BM is out of the picture...she couldnt take the kids lies either....I REALLLLLY wish DH would take the therapist's advice and put SD in a residential treatment program for the summer.....I am hoping the last round of BURNING and STEALING will wake DH up! Hoping that our therapy session next week will slap DH in the face!!!! DH needs to wake up before it is toooooo late...(I already have a dr appt the day before school lets out to get a BIG bottle of xananx!!!!!!)

Thanks for listening to my on and on crying......

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Submitted by shootingstarz on Tue, 05/31/2011 - 9:12pm

Agreed. I refuse as well. They aren't mine so they aren't my problem. He is the one who didn't know how to use a condom. So it's his responsibility!

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Submitted by Marsc11 on Tue, 05/31/2011 - 6:31pm

I just joined this site.

I'm so glad to see I'm not the only one to feel this way. My stepson is 9.
I'm freaking out because school is almost out and he's gonna be with us all summer.

I got a nanny for my 2 small kids and I'm starting to work next week. I cannot bear the thought of being home with my stepson all summer. I'm looking forward to working long days and only have to deal with him at night. His mother lives 4 blocks away, yet he's here every weekend and whenever he's off from school. There's no reason for him to stay here all summer, I think his mom enjoys him being out of the house a little too much.

I had planned to go back to work part-time, but now I'm going full. My kids are still small, but I can not deal with step-son. I hate that I have to leave my kids, but I honestly think that if I don't get out of the house while step-son is here, I will be asking for a divorce by mid-summer

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Submitted by shootingstarz on Tue, 05/31/2011 - 9:15pm

That's really sad... Why do you have to have SS if BM lives so close? What is in the court order? Screw that. Make the kid go home. You shouldn't miss out on your little ones lives because BM is a lazy bitch. She gave birth to him. She needs to watch him. Not you.

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Submitted by hismineandours on Tue, 05/31/2011 - 8:21pm

Yep-just say no. dont watch her. Cant you find her a summer camp for "special needs" kids? I would send her to as many freaking camps as I could and who cares about what the other parents think? That will be dh's problem. If you cant force yourself to do any of those then I would leave her happy ass at home and take my kids fun places.