We have my SS4 biweekly. It has been this way for over half his life. My DH does most of the driving during the exchanges that happen on Sun. because we chose to move 2 hours a way from the city we, including BM, were all living in.

This past Sun, while my husband was on his way back home with my SS (L), something very scary in my eyes happened...
L brought up living with his BM's BF again (long story behind that that I don't have the time or energy to write all out this AM, sorry# since they recently moved back in with him.
L started to cry for no apparent reason...
When my DH asked why he was crying, L said it was because he was 'in trouble'.
When my DH asked him why he thought he was in trouble, L said 'I'm not supposed to talk about living with #BM's BF# because it's none of your business and I'll get into trouble if I talk about it'.
Of course my DH was furious but told L that there are NO SECRETS IN OUR FAMILY and that it was not nice of his BM to say that.

I can't believe she would/could do something like that. Well, actually I can believe it, but it still makes me supper sad and so furious.

On one hand I wish she would grow up and start putting her son first.
On the other I hope she keeps pulling this sh*t because L is learning real fast who the dependable parent is.

I can't wait till L realizes how crazy his BM really is.