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Submitted by vizallygirl on Tue, 07/09/2013 - 1:32pm

My SD and her family are still living in my house... as she walks around acting as if I don't exisit untill she wants something as to which it was my car this time. I told her NO... then got a ration of shit from her grandmother, she left a horrible message on my voicemail including my parents, kids and my friends into the equation to just piss me off even more. what's killing me the most is that my husband hasn't done anything to confront his mother... I told him they are to be out of the house by Sept. 1 or I was going to pack up my stuff and leave... trust me I will if it comes to that... so we had a "so" called family meeting lastnight to discuss them moving and it just turned into a what "i" am doing wrong! I am so through!!! Also, to top it off I am bipolar and this is really effecting my mental health, I swear I'm about to commit suicide... please someone help me Sad

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Submitted by QueenBeau on Tue, 07/09/2013 - 1:35pm

Kick them out NOW. It's your home too. If it's causing you this much mental anguish, let her know she has a week to find another place. If your husband says anything, tell him he can go with her.

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Submitted by vizallygirl on Tue, 07/09/2013 - 1:36pm

I wish it was that simple, she has a 2yr and is pregnant... just what she needs another baby when she can't take care of her own...

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Submitted by QueenBeau on Tue, 07/09/2013 - 1:50pm

EXACTLY. She is not a child. It's sad that she has young children but she can get on HUD or get into low income housing. It's not worth killing yourself to be her enabeler.

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Submitted by misSTEP on Wed, 07/10/2013 - 8:06am

The only thing I would provide for this user is a box of condoms and instructions on how to properly use them.

Otherwise, if she is old enough to have kids she cannot provide for, she is old enough to figure it out for herself!

If your DH has a fit, he is an enabler and can go live with HER when she figures out where SHE is going to live. If she is an unfit parent, call CPS and see if you guys can take custody of the child(ren).